What people think, isn’t your problem
Every person should do what he/she want to do and when he/she want that. This is very simple and very useful. Many of you already know this, which is good, but there are many people who are concerned with other people’s thoughts. I personally believe that this comes from their childhood. Those people were raised to make happy everyone around them except themselves. As the result of this, we have people who will refuse to do something just because their friend or family doesn’t like that.
If you are one of those people, ask yourself these 3 questions and give honest answers:
1. Who is the owner of your life?
2. Do you want to be happy?
3. Why you want to make other people happy?
If you answered correctly and honestly, you may realize that you are making a mistake with your life. You can find many excuses, but all of them are wrong. The most important person to you, are you! This means that you must do everything you can in order to accomplish something that will bring joy to you. There is no point in worrying about what some people will say. It is impossible to make everyone happy. Even if you are a millionaire or a celebrity, you will have people who will appreciate you and those who will hate you. The solution is to stop paying attention to them. Even when your parents are trying to prevent you from something that you want to do or have, don’t obey them. They are your parents, not your owners. The same situation is with friends or spouses. You are the owner of your life.